If you have a friend or family member who just underwent surgery, you may be thinking about ways to help them recover. Here are some tips to help.
Understand their needs: Every person has unique needs specific to their surgery, and everyone handles their recovery differently. Ask about their needs and preferences to tailor your support to them. Consider reaching out to their significant other so you can provide personalized assistance.
Plan your hospital visit: Stopping by for a short visit may lift your loved one’s spirits, but plan ahead so you can arrange a convenient time and avoid unwanted stress. Make sure you know the hospital’s visiting hours and coordinate with other friends and family members to ensure you’re not overwhelming the patient.
Bring functional gifts instead of flowers: Flowers are great but functional gifts that help pass the time can be more beneficial! Here are some ideas to consider:
- Photos of loved ones
- Magazines or books
- Puzzle books or crosswords
- A DVD or CD (make sure they have the correct equipment as well)
Send positivity: Never underestimate the power of small gestures, such as kind notes, text messages or phone calls. Your loved one wants remain a part of your life. Share what’s going on, but remember to keep conversations upbeat.
What have you done to help your loved ones recover? How have your loved ones helped you? Share your ideas below!